But if one loves God truly
[with affectionate reverence,
prompt obedience, and
grateful recognition of His blessing],
he is known by God
[recognized as worthy of His intimacy and love,
and he is owned by Him]. (I Corinthians 8:3, AMPC, emphasis added)
Review of Parts One through Three. In Parts One through Three we studied the first half of 1 Corinthians 8:3, which is the if part of the if/then promise — If we “love God truly” then we are “known by God.”
We saw that God wants us to be reverent toward Him, but He wants that reverence to be like the same affectionate respect a young child has toward a loving human father. God also wants us to obey Him quickly and to have a sincerely thankful heart for His blessings.
Why we approach God with confidence. We ended Part Three with the well-known passage Hebrews 4:14-16. Did you find the connections between that passage and 1 Corinthians 8:3? The connection I see is that I Corinthians 8:3 gives one of many reasons why I can approach God with confidence. Here is Hebrews 4:14-16 again.
4 Therefore, since we have a great high priest who has ascended into heaven, Jesus the Son of God, let us hold firmly to the faith we profess. 15 For we do not have a high priest who is unable to empathize with our weaknesses, but we have one who has been tempted in every way, just as we are—yet he did not sin. 16 Let us then approach God’s throne of grace with confidence, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need. (NIV, emphasis added)
With these words Our loving Father is urging us to draw near to Him, with confidence, when we need help. Why? Because through what Jesus experienced, He feels what we feel. He has “a shared feeling with our weaknesses and infirmities and liability to the assaults of temptation”(AMPC). God has the same fatherly compassion on us as a human father has on his children because God “knows our frame, He [earnestly] remembers and imprints [on His heart] that we are dust.” (AMPC)
Now consider the second half of 1 Corinthians 8:3. The one who loves God truly “. . . is known by God [recognized as worthy of His intimacy and love, and he is owned by Him].” Think about a cherished little boy. He runs to his papa for comfort or help or to ask for whatever he needs. He does so with confidence, no hesitation at all, because he knows his papa’s loving character. That child has personal acquaintance and experience with his loving papa. He is like the believer God speaks of in Psalm 91:14
14 Because he has set his love upon Me, therefore will I deliver him; I will set him on high, because he knows and understands My name [has a personal knowledge of My mercy, love, and kindness—trusts and relies on Me, knowing I will never forsake him, no, never]. (AMPC, emphasis added).
God is talking about someone who understands His character, who knows what He is like because that person has personal experience with God’s mercy, love and kindness. That person trusts and relies on God—on the basis of that knowledge of God—and knows God “will never forsake him, no never!” That person approaches God with confidence.
But what if we are not confident about approaching God? Now think about another cherished little boy just adopted into that same family. This little boy had an abusive early childhood and was then in an orphanage where other children told him adoptive parents were cruel and harsh.
Before this hurt and misinformed little boy can approach his new father with confidence, he must hear and believe the truth about his new father. He needs words of love and reassurance from his new father, and he needs actual experience with his new father’s mercy and loving kindnesses. All that happens naturally as that little boy just lives with his new father. His new father adores him, knows what little boys need, and knows that this little boy in particular needs extra love and reassurances and patience and tenderness.
Before we knew the Lord, we were abused by the world and by the enemy of our souls, Satan. Satan lied to us about what God is like. Even after we become acquainted with God, the enemy strives mightily to prevent our having an intimate relationship with God. Satan tells us that God demands perfection and that we can never be good enough. He says that when we err God withholds His love. Or he hisses in our heart that we are not loving God the right way or that there is only one formal way to talk with God. He says how we worship God is not as good as how other people worship so we should just stop. He says God does not love us as much as He loves others, that He is not really with us all the time, that He really cannot meet all our needs, that we cannot really learn to sense His presence. . . and on and on! The enemy takes the beautiful truths about God and whispers the exact opposite.
If that is your situation, ask God to reveal His loving nature to you and then diligently study and meditate upon passages in the Bible about His love. We can never earn God’s love, but we can all learn more about His love.
“he is known by God [recognized as worthy of His intimacy and love, and he is owned by Him.” Websters 1828 online dictionary defines to know as “to perceive with certainty; to understand clearly; to have a clear and certain perception of truth, fact, or anything that actually exists.”
When a husband arrives late to a neighborhood barbeque and sees his wife, he will immediately know who she is. He will in that same instance recognize that it is appropriate to give her a kiss and a hug. That same man will not, however, hug a woman he does not know. Why? Because he clearly knows, or recognizes, that this second woman is not his wife. She does not belong to him. Therefore, loving, intimate behavior with her is not appropriate – because she is not his.
In I Corinthians 8:3 God tells us that if we truly love Him, He considers us deserving of His closeness and His love, just as a husband or wife recognizes that their spouse is worthy of intimacy and love. “The Lord knows those who are His” (2 Timothy 2:19, NIV) God knows whether a person has truly believed in Him.
God knows the human heart. He knows right where each of us are in our relationship with Him. He understands our human nature, and He knows that some of us have an especially hard time believing and then feeling that God really does love us, just as we are, with all our imperfections. I think that is one reason the Bible is filled with so many statements about God’s love for us and His merciful, compassionate nature. (The Bible is also filled with truths about the holy and just parts of God’s character, and we must keep those in mind but I am talking about here about God’s compassion.)
“Learn to know God.” We should all be seeking closer closeness with God. Though the world, our human nature and the devil create obstacles we can, through God’s grace, overcome those obstacles.
When David commissioned his son Solomon to build the temple, he summoned all the officers and commanders of Israel. In their presence he charged his son Solomon to obey all the commandments of the Lord. Then King David said:
(9) “And you, Solomon my son, know the God of your father [have personal knowledge of Him, be acquainted with, and understand Him; appreciate, heed, and cherish Him] and serve Him with a blameless heart and a willing mind. For the Lord searches all hearts and minds and understands all the wanderings of the thoughts. If you seek Him [inquiring for and of Him and requiring Him as your first and vital necessity] you will find Him; but if you forsake Him, He will cast you off forever! (I Chronicles 28:9, emphasis added)
Notice how the AMPC clarifies what David meant by “know the God of your father.” To know God, as David meant it, is to “have personal knowledge of Him, be acquainted with, and understand Him and to appreciate, heed, and cherish Him.” It also meant to keep your heart blameless and your mind willing. Why? That is the only appropriate human response to God, of course.
Also consider the part of the verse after the word for. David warns Solomon that God understands every thought of the heart, every little wandering thought. God knows if we are sincerely putting Him first in our life, and if we are, God promises we will find Him.
We must build our relationship with God, a privilege beyond price. Consider verse 10 of 1 Chronicles 28:
(10) Take heed now, for the Lord has chosen you to build a house for the sanctuary. Be strong and do it! (1 Chronicles 28:8-10, AMPC, emphasis added)
Since New Testament times, believers in Jesus now have God dwelling inside them, rather than in “an earthly tabernacle made with hands” (2 Corinthians 5:1) as in Old Testament days. As God, through David, charged Solomon to build the temple, so God, through His Word, charges us to build our relationship with Him. We hear this message clearly throughout the New Testament. Consider I Corinthians 13:11 and 14:20, Ephesians 4:13 and 6:10-12, Hebrews 5:12, and 1 Peter 2:2, to name only a few of many.
How privileged we are! How carefully we should build up and maintain our relationship with our indwelling, loving, Almighty Heavenly Father! David, whose name means beloved, gathered all the materials necessary for his wise son Solomon to build the temple. Jesus, our Beloved Lord, has through His blood shed on the cross, provided everything we need to build a deep and intimate relationship with God. I must ask myself: Am I consistently doing all that I can?
In conclusion: I Corinthians 8:3 is one of the many Bible passages where God explains how much He loves us and how much He wants to be intimate with us! He is like a father pulling a little toddler in close, forehead to forehead, saying “I love you, I love you, I love you!” then chuckling as his child squeals with glee.
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I ask you: If human fathers and mothers delight in being affectionate with the children they own, how much more would God? Remember 1 Corinthians 8:3 tells us that if we love God truly, we are owned by Him. If human fathers and mothers take care of the children they own, how much more does God take care of the children He owns? Does He not supply our every need? Does He not
“do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to His power that is at work within us? To Him by glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, for ever and ever! Amen.” (Ephesians 3:20)
Beloved, God has done everything needed for us to be close to Him. The rest is up to you and me. Strive to draw closer to God. Feed on His Word day and night (Psalm 1). Nestle in close to Him, under His feathers and thus hide your heart from the storms of the world as you abide in the secret place of His presence (Psalm 91). You are precious in His sight (Psalm 103). He daily carries your burdens (Psalm 68:19) and carries you close to His great heart of love.
Even to your old age I am He, and even to hair white with age will I carry you. I have made, and I will bear; yes, I will carry and will save you. (Isaiah 46:4, AMPC)
Let Him gather you in His strong arms like the little lamb you are and carry you close to His heart (Isaiah 40:11).
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Yes. Dear Lord, as long as I have breath help me seek you & always desire to grow and mature into the woman You want me to be! To love You & embrace Your love for me!
That is exactly my prayer, too!